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Name: Ling
Country: Canada
Birthday: 12/3/1982
Gender: Female


Interests: Pretending to be busy. Attempting to figure out the origin of the universe. Plotting to take over the world.
Expertise: Professional Toilet Clogger
Occupation: Starving CPGer
Industry: Business


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Member Since: 10/30/2003

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Friday, November 27, 2009

Mom Turns 59!

 

Mom Bday

 

Preceded by sushi-stuff-your-face buffet. Guest appearance by boyfriend. Proceeded home. Haggled over how much red packet to give Mom on her birthday.

No cake, just toasted to two glasses of red wine and some Japanese biscuits.

Happy Birthday Mom!

 


Wednesday, November 25, 2009

"I Thought You Were A Teacher"

I was among the stragglers after my Calculus lecture today. The Prof and I were the only ones left and we walked out together.

He said to me: "When I heard you speak in the initial class, I thought you were a teacher. You spoke slowly and clearly. Like a teacher."

I laughed. I guess that reaffirms my voice projection and loudness.

I usually sit at the back of a 300-seat lecture hall.

 


Monday, November 16, 2009

My Recent Work Mantra

Act first, and ask for forgiveness later.

Reason is twofold:

  • I don't want to give you the opportunity to say no
  • The alternative takes too long

 


Wednesday, November 11, 2009

They Don't Come. You Seek Them Out

Many people go into business to become entrepreneurs.

I have never been one of those for many reasons.

I shall not delve into the details. But I can reassure you, I am not risk averse.

However, I've recently corrected a misconception.

I used to say, "I can never be an entrepreneur because I don't have any business ideas.

I am not an 'ideas' person.

Believe it or not, through my corporate job, I've realized one thing: 

Ideas rarely hit you like a lightning bolt. They are often the result of an evolution of "something". An evolution of observed needs, an evolution of shared best practices, an evolution of failed attempts, etc. They are independent events that happen to you. You then proactively string these independent events together.

You do so by reflecting on these independent events. Ultimately, an idea, or an opportunity, is the result of your concerted effort in seeking it out.

The key word here is not 'idea' or 'opportunity'. It is 'committment'. You commit, then you seek. Only then, you would be able to recognize ideas and opportunities.

You may not know what you're looking for. Nonetheless, you should always be looking.

Not saying I want to be an entrepreneur. Just saying, I've realized, me not being an 'ideas' person should not be a hurdle to anything I decide to do.

Courtesy of Andy & Jacq:

http://www.ted.com

 


Wednesday, November 04, 2009

Antisocial

I just had a two-day offsite meeting. Two days of listening to presentations, two days of being away from the computer, and ultimately, two days of work piled up.

Usually after these sort of meetings, the company arrange for all of us to go out for dinner. I bailed both nights. Last night I had my calculus midterm, tonight I just have so much catch up work I feel like I should come home and get things done.

In an effort to coax me into joining my coworkers for dinner, a coworker jokingly said, "Ling, stop being antisocial. You always bail."

In Boston, I bailed for dinner one night. I had to churn out a presentation and I just didn't have enough time before I went on vacation. I knew I wouldn't be able to work during vacation because I've slotted that time to check out schools and study for my upcoming Calculus midterm. Usually I have no problem working through vacations. Ended up I got an award that night and I was not at the dinner to receive the award. As the result of the awards presentation, my absence was called out. Now I'm tagged at work as the girl who always bail for work socials.

I don't like that. I know I appear aloof because I constantly bail on socials. But, it's hard to explain how I have multiple priorities. I work in the day like most. I take classes at night. I spend 20 hours a week on homework, and to top it off I have non-profit committments. I don't want to fail on any front. I love work and I want to put in as much as I can. Socials simply lay low on my priority list.

I genuinely like my coworkers. This is the best group of coworkers I've ever had. If I had the time, I would love to just sit, relax and enjoy a cocktail. But I just don't have the time. I stream TV shows online. Even while I'm streaming "Gossip Girl", I'm working on the other monitor. I rarely sit for an extended period of time without doing anything productive.

Yet it's hard to explain all these.

I just don't like the fact that people think I'm antisocial.

I am not antisocial. I like people. Alot. I just like to work too. I simply hate having an ever growing to-do-list. So I constantly attempt to keep it under control.

 



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